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Hey y'all, I've got 8 months of college left and want to make them count. I've done pretty well these 4 years, way more than hs me could imagine, but I NEED MORE! Moving like 3 hours away when I graduate so this is very much a training ground for all the new people I'll meet in 8 months. Below is a little list of what's on my mind for this final preparation before "real life".
*My social status is no longer a thing (aka I don't get laid anymore). I used to be a high status guy on a ski team of 100+ members AND a drug dealer. Lot of status there, esp for college chicks. Quit both of those (and the associated friendships) to be healthier and build career, but I'm kinda floundering socially without a big group of friends (something I MUST overcome in New City, USA)
*My career is going great. Officially getting liscensed to work freelance photography and I'm already paying the bills with it. Work my own hours, have fun, make art, life's good. Any advice on that?
*Lotta times I'll be trying to go out but have nothing to do and nowhere to go so I just hit up an old friend and end up drinking a ton with some dudes and a few of their gfs. Not really socialising the way I need to be if I want to slay women and shmooze out deals in the future. Ways out of this loop?
*Substance abuse is WAY down, but I still want to be able to enjoy drugs when permissable. Problem is any friends I have are not the same. They don't know how to just have a few beers or smoke weed just once a week or buy groceries before blow. That was me too, but I've grown and basically can't find people.
*I'm lifting like my life depends on it... But I'm also eating like shit. 6' 175lb, trying hard to get to 190-200 so my first impressions in my next city can all include the word "jacked". Can someone help with meal planning? I either don't eat nearly enough or I spend all my damn money on takeout.
*I'm afraid that I'll stop lifting again. I'm at the peak before i start to make small concessions, skip some days, then wake up to find I haven't worked out in a month. It's happened before, don't want it to again.
*I need to visit a dentist, get my blood checked, be hygenic, fix my car, and finish my tattoo. I'm shit at appointment type stuff like this, how can I be less shit?
*Anything else you'd think a 22 year old guy with a bright future and prepatory time should hear?
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