I do Jiujitsu (BJJ) about 4 times a week and mix up with striking on Saturday, and No-Gi MMA focused grappling/drills on Sunday. Lifting get's in the way of that, so I don't lift. I used to lift. 5'9, 190-185lbs. I'd consider myself a 5 in looks. Yes I got a haircut, shave, use cologne. I do visit express/gap etc and try to update my wardrobe. Shoes as well. I have a career that doesn't pay that well, but will build my resume, money wise I'm OK, but I am on the lookout for another job when I hit my two year mark.

I feel my entire flaw is A) I'm awful at conversation (I'm too analytical) B) I just suck at convo period. I can't tinder well, OK Cupid well.

My goal is to pay for someone to take really good pictures of me, but what resources do you guys suggest for getting better at "Game"/"Frame".

Books, online guides, etc. I really don't want to pay $600 + dollars for RSD shit, but if there is a RSD thing you guys recommend I'd appreciate it.

What is the next level after the physical stuff is gone?

Edit: I don't want to come off as cocky, but I will not lift. I have done lots of lifting (Jim Wendlers 5-3-1, with a mix of Muscle Fitness Mag's mass gaining routine for looks). Please don't tell me "Lift more". I understand we all have something to learn. At the moment I'm competing in the IBJJF open in my local big city, as well as realizing the mass destroys my funk when I fight.