"You don't make me feel good." A phrase I've heard too many times from women and I just don't know what to do about it. I'm a tall, good looking guy that gets checked out on the regular but when I open my mouth I just lose them. Even my female flatmate will ask how my day was and within a minute of talking she will get distracted by her phone and just ignore me. It's incredibly frustrating for me. I've noticed the women who do want to sleep with me are just constantly complaining about life (seems to be who I attract) and so now I just don't even bother with them.

I've been a negative person in the past and though I may have pretty negative thoughts (and no real life passion), I'm not going around complaining about stuff, but it just seems like people can see through it even when I'm optimistic and smiling.

Some guidance on not being such a drag would be much appreciated. Kind of at a loss as to what I should be doing at this point.