This is a post from r/seduction, thought I would it would be good to see what everyone here thinks:

"Went to visit some friends at another university. Met this girl and we hooked up. Left but we continued to snapchat and text, etc for like 2 weeks. Personally, I don't ever keep communication with girls I hook up with unless we're planning on hanging out soon however this girl lives in a different state. I guess I was just impressed by how cool she was and ended up catching feelings. Ended up really wanting to see her again in person so I decided I should at least tell her whats up.

Sent her a text something along the lines of: "Hey this is me being sincere. I'm wondering if it would be too much if I came down to visit. I really got you stuck on my mind to be honest." She ended up responding that she wasn't interested.

It's whatever tbh since we've only actually hung out for a couple days and only known each other for a couple of weeks, but it still kinda sucks. I think I did it the most straightforward way without getting too attached though.

Too much? Thoughts?"

I thought what he did was very needy and was a terrible move, but the majority of people in the comments saying he didn't anything wrong baffled me.

TL;DR: He was visiting another state and hooked up with a girl once and caught an extreme case of oneitis. He was willing traveling back to see her and sent a needy text.

I want your takes on this. Was it the right move? Your Thoughts?