Met up with my childhood oneitis from over 15 years ago. She hit the wall HARD and is the perfect reminder for me of how oneitis is self delusion.

She is engaged to her boyfriend of 10 years. This guy used to be alpha as fuck, but he's become an insecure beta bitch. He was very nervous about her coming on this reunion trip with me and our old friends. She went anyway.

I think I inadvertently did a bit of Black Rose technique on her. She was talking about how one of our friends, who also used to have alpha traits, fell apart and is insecure now. I used that to have her think about her fiance. I got her to visualize all the elements that were attractive about her fiance back in the day. Then I jolted her to reality that he's not like that anymore.

She fell silent. Then what caught me off guard is that she blurted out, "Are you wanting to fuck me?"

I realized in that moment that she was feeling horny from thinking about her boyfriend but confusing those feelings for being with me.

I responded, "Furthest thing from my mind, but fucking me is clearly something you're thinking about so let's head to the other room."

She grew red as a tomato. I held frame and fucking knew it. It was great.

Yet we went to the next room, and she said "This is getting into dangerous waters." I responded, "I thought you were a fan of shark week?"

I tried to escalate physically, but she just seemed to close up so I withdrew. Then she said she wanted to go and left.

What did I do wrong here? I thought maybe she took the shark week comment offensively? Idk, what would be recommended once you've isolated someone?