I'm short, ugly, ginger, aaaand full of self hate, go figure. But I'm smart, I have a respectable job, and still relatively young. I need to grow some thicker skin, find some confidence... be like those guys who were born a loser, die a winner.

But what is the trick... age? A spiritual journey? Truly not giving a fuck and throwing your emotions out the window? How do you unlock it?

I'm a healthy, young, white man in America, I need to get my shit together... just don't know where to start.