TLDR: Calling this act "paternity fraud" is as grossly inaccurate as referring to rape as "involuntary intercourse". It deserves its own one syllable word:
SLAPE
For the purposes of this essay SLAPE is defined as:
The act of a female deceiving a male into supporting a pregnancy or child that is not biologically his. Support is defined as both tangible and intangible resources such as money, wealth, time, attention, and emotional devotion on the male's part. The deception begins 24 hours after the moment the woman learns she is pregnant, knows it is possible that it is not her presumed partner's, and fails to tell him. This act is separate from cheating or sex outside the relationship.
Note: A woman who takes tangible measures to obtain an abortion within the 24 hour period of discovering a pregnancy that is possibly not her presumed partners, and follows through with the abortion, would be exempt from this definition.
Paternity fraud is a grossly, GROSSLY understated term for the act that it really is.
Calling this heinous act "fraud" makes it akin to having your credit card details stolen and having your account charged $40.00 for a purchase you didn't make on Amazon.com.
A woman tricking a man into raising a child that is not his own is stealing the man's life, his genetic legacy, and his right to reproduce as he sees fit—just as surely as a male rapist steals a woman's life, genetic legacy, and her right to reproduce as she sees fit. Where the male rapist uses force the female slapist uses trickery, guile, and deception.
Despite what the feminists say, the child's welfare DOES NOT supersede that of the man's if he is not the biological father. Due process supersedes the welfare of a child. Protecting the innocently deceived supersedes the welfare of the child.
Slape is a portmanteau of the words SLUT and RAPE. Slape also means "Slippery; smooth; crafty; hypocritical." I think it is the most fitting word that with a simple ONE SYLLABLE UTTERANCE brings to mind the exact same horror that the word rape does. "Paternity fraud" does not.
Oh, but wait! A portmanteau using the word "slut"???! Oh my, now I'm slut shaming! “Men can sleep with as many women as they want, and they’re studs!” Well I hate to break it to the feminists, but there's a very real biological basis as to why men hate sluts—of the Under the Radar variety. And that basis is having a man's genetic legacy and right to reproduce as he sees fit stolen from him. (By the way, the vast majority of men cannot sleep with as many women as they want unless they use sex workers—even the tallest, wealthiest, most famous, most powerful among us.)
Public sex workers such as porn stars—which most men utilize—are excluded from the term slut. There's a difference between what an Under the Radar slut can do and a paid whore. (UTR courtesans such as college age escorts are a category that could lean towards “slut” depending on their number of partners.)
The word SLAPE is a derivative word that reminds us why we hate sluts. Additionally, the word slut is to the potential of female slape the same as the word creep is to the potential of male rape.
So while being creepy and slutty will still remain legally protected, their more serious derivative acts—rape and slape—will not remain legally protected.
To the men out there, have we forgotten why we used to criminalize adultery in women? It was the very real threat of being slaped, of raising a child that is not our own. How the hell could we have allowed our society to get to the point where slape is 100% legal and without any real consequence?
Don’t' get me wrong. I don't think nor do I believe for one moment that the act of being a slut, cheating, adultery, etc. will ever be criminalized again. Men can cheat, and women can cheat, too. Fine. Fair is fair.
The act of slape goes FAR, FAR beyond an act of sex. Men cannot trick women into raising a child that is not her own. It is impossible. Only a woman can do this deception. This is what slape is.
It is the act of destroying a man's life, genetic legacy, and life's work. Every instinct that biology instills in a man to propagate his bloodline down through the ages—taken away by a woman with a good poker face and a superior ability to deceive. The male victim is now essentially genetically dead.
Feminists not facing the consequences of being slaped (or "defrauded") of their child's genetic lineage can never truly understand the sickening nature of this heinous crime. And that's exactly what it is—a heinous crime deserving of prison time. It's a crime not in the books yet (as of this writing in 2016), but it's a crime none the less. It is a crime deserving of punishment in direct proportion to the length of time that the deception was carried out.
From the moment a woman knows she is possibly pregnant by a man not her partner, to the moment she utilizes the deceived man's time, attention, resources, and wealth to carry on that pregnancy she is guilty of slape. Obviously a slape pregnancy carried on past birth is a much more serious form of slape, and should be deserving of much more serious punishment. This correlates to the same way we have different legal degrees of rape and sexual assault.
Which brings to mind, we have blue dots that peg men as sex offenders for life for things as little as peeing in public. Why not have pink dots that peg women as convicted slapists for something as little as utilizing a boyfriend's money for a day's worth of rent as she carries a pregnancy that's not his? Why do we not throw women in prison for 30 years for carrying on an act of slape for 1+ more years like we would do to a male who commits an act of rape in a parking garage?
And just as we place the blame on rape squarely on the shoulders of men (e.g. what a woman was wearing before rape is irrelevant) an act of slape should be placed squarely on the shoulders of women. Only a woman can know if she is pregnant and continuing to take resources from a deceived man (e.g. how “gullible” the male is during slape is irrelevant). As a reminder, slape must be defined as completely separate from the act of sex itself. As noted before, cheating is completely legal, and will likely remain so.
LESSONS LEARNED:
1.) I'm tired of seeing so much attention being paid to male rapists, and none whatsoever to female slapists. Male rape is a heinous crime, and it's about time we paid the same amount of attention to female slape which is just as horrific.
2.) We have estimates in this country that roughly 2% to 10% of men are a victim to this heinous act.* Not only that, but we have DOCTORS who actively REFUSE to tell men who are a victim of this crime citing “patient confidentiality”. Just imagine finding out your three children are not your own at age 65 because of a sociopath girlfriend/wife who had a complicit pediatrician, and it’s simply treated as a silly little mistake. Your genetic lineage is now over. You are effectively genetically dead. THIS IS AN OUTRAGE!
3.) It's about time we start bringing public attention to the victims of slape and their perpetrators in online forums. We hunt down rapists. It's high time we hunt down slapists, too. We need to bring public awareness to this crime NOW!!!!!
4.) To the men's rights activists, the Red Pillers, and the MGTOWs I say this:
We all need to focus on MEASURABLE PROGRESS to solve this injustice. We need a state by state goal of getting SLAPE legislation on the books to place these sociopath women where they belong—socially ostracized for life, fined heavily in direct proportion to their deception, and most importantly, IN PRISON.
*Source: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/men/relationships/fatherhood/11839479/Should-we-be-doing-more-to-expose-paternity-fraud.html
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