i'm sick and tired of emotionally investing in every girl that gives me attention. it's paralyzing and I hate it. But I simply can't control my feelings. I read a post on TRP saying if you're a beta and you can't develop abundance at the moment, get a hobby that keeps you busy.

While I do have a great hobby/business that would keep my very busy, I can't practice it because I'm in a very rigorous university studying engineering - which, by the way, is why I can't do approaches in class (there are no girls).

I can't yet bring myself to do cold approaches outside. It terrifies the fuck out of me. But I just started getting better at talking to girls, and I'm starting to look better too. I want to develop abundance but how should I do it? Where should I go? I'm only practicing game with this one decent looking girl i met through a friend, and i'm starting to emotionally invest. the emotions are starting to interfere with my daily life.

any help is really appreciated