I get this comment alot lately, usually from females. You are the most quiet person between your friends, or "You are so quiet". I don't think am a shy person. I have nothing to prove. Other people seem like they have something to prove. I am not too playful.

I just don't really fool around or act like a clown like some other guys I see(that gets them the attention and attraction sometimes though) I am a great listener and consider my self an intelligent person, and I can be funny and witty sometimes, but in social situations I don't really care to interrupt or jump in conversations if I have nothing relevant/funny to add. So people say am a chill/quiet person and for some reason it bothers me and makes me think if it's a trait I need to work on.

I can approach strangers fine and keep conversations. Sometimes i switch from"low frequency" to "high frequency" in my interactions if that makes sense. It's like sometimes am in the mood to tease everyone relentlessly and have fun, and others I just chill and talk when I feel like it. Sometimes am the life of the party and other times am just there, enjoying the conversations. thanks