For my Tall women 5’8+ who want a more traditional relationship where the male is the provider , and protecter do you find yourself dating really tall men or men taller than you ?

I’m 5’9.5 btw

I’m asking because when I do see a tall women-short man couple the couple tends to be progressive and gender roles don’t exist ..I’m not saying all but most ?

What are you’re thoughts , can you still feel feminine with a guy shorter than you or same height ?I find most guys are my height and I hate to eliminate all of them but at the same time I love feeling feminine .