Sure I lead with out hesitation, but for example... going to academy to check out stuff I invite a chick. Ask her if she wants to meet or should I come by and grab her. “Idk,...you decide.. what ever works for you..” same shit what does this mean? That’s she’s submissive, or can’t really make up her mind or is shy to say yes come get me.? I mean I know woman do this when you ask where to eat at, but this girl can’t even decide anything for herself.