Posting full text here because not every one has a fet account

https://fetlife.com/users/2415892/posts/3465441

So, here's the conclusion and I'm definitely throwing this out here:

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.

I have met (interacted with) quite a few people here on Fetlife. Either we've discussed stuff in groups, they've commented on my pictures or they sent me messages. But...

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.

Funny enough, I have heard people talk about these creepy guys. I've seen girls mention creepy guys in their profile text, or mention them when we message each other. I've heard men say that 'they're not a creep like some other guys'. I hear a lot about creepy guys, but...

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.

Not one of the guys I met on Fetlife has given me the creeps. Yes, I get comments on my pictures from men telling me how much they'd love to rub my behind with their love sword (yes, I am using euphemisms so I don't have to say cock. oh! ... damn). Yes, I get messages from men telling me how they have been stroking their hard cock while watching my pictures, imagining how they would rub my clit and pound my pussy and make me cum so hard, while... well you get it. But still...

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.

So how cum? Come! I mean. How come? How come some people run into creepy guys all the time? I think creepiness is in the eye of the beholder. It's only creepy when the other person is an unwilling object of hornification. I am quite willing, myself. And I express and underline that by posting sexual pictures on a site based on sexuality full of sexually interested people. And when those sexy people make sexy remarks on my sexy pictures on this sexy site, or write me sexy messages to my sexy inbox (lol, inbox sounds punny now - or is that just my mind?) they are only doing what is to be expected.

And you know what, when my sexy pictures give someone a sexy feeling, I am proud and happy because I'm good at doing what I'm doing. And it's even better when someone tells you you're good at it. I take it as a wonderful compliment when I do my best to make yet another sexy picture and someone tells me they loved it so much it got them hard instantly which was very inconvenient because they were in the office secretly browsing Fetlife :-D

For me, a sexual compliment is just as good as a compliment for my clothes, my efforts, my photography skills (ahem), my writings, etc. It's a compliment on an element of your efforts. Which is why...

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.

I have also seen girls who are okay with hot stallions (I mean that figuratively) posting sexy comments under their pics. But the same girls are creeped out when a guy old enough to be their dad says the same thing. But that's not really fair. Older men are inhabitants of the Fetlife grounds as well. Actually, they're keeping it up more then young people do (I mean Fetlife, no penis reference here) because they tend to be supporting members of the community more often than young people. Understandably. Anyways. If you don't want particular people to see your sexy pics, jack off to them and then write you a thank you note for that (hahaha - if only!) then simply keep your pics to friends only. Just because they don't fall into your 'would fuck in a heartbeat' category, that doesn't mean they're not an actual person with actual feelings. Besides that throbbing feeling, I mean. All those throbbing men on Fetlife are here because they are welcome to throb all they want to. This is not i-heart-kittens.org . It's Fetlife. And...

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.

You know what I would find creepy? If, on a non-sexual site like i-heart-kittens a guy would make sexual comments on my vanilla avatar. Or, if during a non-sexual conversation there is one person who wants to talk sex to girls a little too much. Or, if a person secretly has sexual fantasies in his head while he is asking you advice on how to use a garden hose. And that you slowly become aware that in his head you are merely lip synching the word garden hose, because in his head you are saying cooocccckkk all the time. Now that's creepy. But a guy blatantly telling you what sort of sexual thoughts he has looking at your sexy pictures that you posted on a website celebrating sexiness? That's just to be expected. Or appropriate. Or a lovely compliment. You pick which one ;) So just so you know:

I haven't met a creepy guy on Fetlife yet.