How much does red pill apply to male friends? Do I really need to use dread game here too for friendships to work?

I have some good friends and it feels like every time we are out together they show me a lot of respect. People generally look excited when they see me, even though I am not much of a talker myself. How come it has become a trend that almost all of my friends tend to ignore my messages as long as possible and mostly respond only after a couple of hours? Same goes for calls and calling back. They treat me like a completely different person when we aren’t seeing face-to-face.

Thoughts? The fuck am I doing wrong?