When a girl tells you a guy asked her to hang out, what is her goal?

Stagnant_Flow · 2018-05-06T21:08:22+00:00

Who is she? Plate? LRT? Some random person you haven't had sex with?

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2018-05-06T22:19:04+00:00

Because trying to get a rise out of you is better than being bored.

Ask her if she checked out his ass, then ignore.

[deleted] · 2018-05-06T22:44:06+00:00

Time to start taking casually about a very attractive, single co worker. Make it about totally harmless stuff. Other hot women are naturally a threat and will put her on alert. "It was so funny when Amy got in an argument with the manager today". Don't fall in the trap of feeling the need to put Amy down to soothe your girl. Just neutral talk, then let her mind fear the possibilities.

zboo1h · 2018-05-06T22:46:26+00:00

Ex-LTR used to drop this on me sometimes. "So-and-so asked me out", "I got hit on so much at work tonight", "So-and-so ex reached out", etc. I either straight up ignored her and changed the subject or laughed and asked why she didn't go hang out with them and quit bugging me. She just wants to see if you'll budge. Don't.

Wrath_of_Trump · 2018-05-06T22:54:34+00:00

If you behave needy when there are no commitments (marriage, kids, etc) it means you're committing more than she is and there is a value disparity favoring her. If she perceives it, she will take her ass back to the market for a better deal.

Title	When a girl tells you a guy asked her to hang out, what is her goal?
Author	gainz88
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	May 6, 2018 9:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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