I consented to marriage because I was having good sex at the time. Also I was pushed into it by my mother in law because my father in law did not want me to see her again. Also my now wife said she was virgin and she only had ever been with me. Fast forward 10 years and she confessed that she had slept with several guys, not only that, but while we were boyfriends. Not only that but she had sex in a motel with her teacher while in college (while we were dating), several times, and had random hookups with men she met on the street (literally). So not only she was not the virginal saint she had proclaimed, she was the biggest slut I ever met. Now I have a child. She does not work nor wants to work. I work my ass everyday. Whenever I bring the issue of a divorce, she threatens me to get 50% of all my possessions, salary, etc plus 100% custody. Truth is I did slap her like 3 times around 4 yrs ago. About one time per year. That was before she confessed on being a slut. I haven't touched her since. They say you can only hate someone you love. That is true.

Now I feel trapped in this marriage born in hell. I feel that because I slapped her years ago, now I cannot bring any topic of discussion to the table. Whenever I try to argue simple things that she does not agree, she grabs the baby and runs for the door saying she will leave me, threats to sue me, land me in jail, etc.

I married a cow that has 2 maids (demanded a driver but told her no way), and her only responsibility is to attend her 'curves' zumba lesson. She has no interest of working or doing anything. She has a cook maid which cooks everything plus a nanny that takes care of our son half of the day.

All my family knows that she is a lazy ass, and I've told them of my terrible sins (slapping her like 3 times) and tell me I should just get a divorce, but I know she will drag me in front of a judge and she will get anything she want with her cocodrile tears.

I give her half of my salary so she gets anything she wants.

Honestly there should be a law where if you consent to having kids or to marriage under false pretenses (for example that she was a loyal partner and she wasn't), then women should be entitled to fewer rights, but I know that will not happen.

At least now I am focused on my work and trust me I would never marry again.

To be honest I will not divorce just to never marry again. I have just become Al Bundy in my thirties.