Swallowed the Red Pill about a month ago. Read through the sidebar several times. Looking for advice how best to apply skills on this woman for practice.
Riding a sportbike is one of my major hobbies and I just moved to a new city where I knew a few people, my friends (bf/gf) had me come out to a car/bike meet one night to start meeting people. I ended up taking my buddy's bike for a ride since mine was still being fixed from issues still prevalent from last year, while I was gone this female rider (we'll call her R) asked my buddy who I was, which he told me after she left.
Fast forward a week, my bike is fixed and I'm invited to go for a ride with a small group of experienced riders by an middle aged female rider (we'll call her M), I show up and R is there. R pays little attention to me and gives off a bitchy vibe to me. The other guy who was invited doesn't show up, so it's me and the 3 women going for a ride. We stop, I end up taking a nice picture of all 3 bikes and post it on Instagram>Facebook (I'm a photographer).
I know most of you guys are against social media, but it's not going away for me as it has a use for several hobbies and work purposes (sales/marketing), for riding specifically to organize rides. Anyway, I was already Facebook friends with M, so when she saw the picture later that night, she thought it was amazing and tagged L and the other woman. Both of them thought it was great as well, I said if they wanted I would be more than happy to do a bike shoot at some point, to which R replied "that would be awesome!" I sent R and the other woman a friend request, other accepted and R declined. Did the same thing on Instagram, same result.
I could care less if anything happens between R and I, but I feel like this could be a potential opportunity to practice RP basics and I want some advice how best to apply RP to this woman to at least get her to drop her bitchy defensive walls around me. If it matters I'm 28 and she's 30-35, hasn't hit the wall but is close to it.
TL;DR want to practice RP on bitchy girl who I will see frequently in social setting for mutual hobby, not particularly interested in her, but want to see how best to drop her bitchy defensive walls to me
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