Wassup guys,

I’ve followed the red pill for a few years. I’m 19 and finishing my first year at university. I’ve smashed my goals. Got with plenty of girls, smashed my gym goals and played college sports etc. I’ve made my name pretty big on campus and whilst that has its benefits, it definitely has its downsides. My actions are analysed under a microscope and since I won a student election, I’m under a lot of pressure to conform by fellow students who elected me. My principles are important to me and I’ve always stuck by them so I can’t lie it hurts to know that certain people think I’m a douche because I live the life i want to live. I haven’t stepped on anyone’s toes, all I did was consistently take girls home from the club. I’ve been pretty selfless and done a lot for my fellow students but people still see me as the cocky freshman. I know frame is important but I want to know how you guys deal with hate and jealousy. How do you balance living for yourself and interacting with other people and their societal standards of mediocrity? I talked to an older redpilled masters student at my uni who was a few years older than me at the same high school. He deals with the same situation and says “people who don’t know you can have any opinion of you, but it’s an issue if people who know you don’t like you.” Should I worry about the approval of others? It might damage future career prospects if some of the people in my network think I’m a tool. Is there anyway to reduce the hate? Can you still be a figure/big man on campus without people your business ?