Firstly, not sure if I even want to come back to the US to live. Been overseas working. I make over six figures and I agreed to pay her 1K a month the first two years. I am currently paying nothing now. She remarried and has pretty much gone crazy trying to find me to get me in court, emails my parents, etc. I have yet to go to court. I spoke to an attorney some time back and was told payments would likely be somewhere around 1500-2200 a month, until I made less money and got the payments reduced. Part of me says fuck it, stay abroad and never come back. At this point in my life I do not want to be a parent. I actually objected to having the child before it was born, now she's trying to force me to pay.

What are some of my potential avenues for recourse if I avoid being found? What can I expect if I do allow myself to be found. I have particular skillsets that if I never wanted to be found, I would stay off the radar indefinitely. What to do?