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Spare a thought for the Western men trapped in Japan

DoItLive247

April 3, 2015
27 upvotes
/r/MensRights
http://www.japantimes.co.jp/community/2015/03/23/voices/spare-thought-western-men-trapped-japan/#.VRg4BEY2ddB
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Title Spare a thought for the Western men trapped in Japan
Author

DoItLive247

Upvotes 27
Comments 7
Date April 3, 2015 3:10 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/319qw0/spare_a_thought_for_the_western_men_trapped_in/
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Comments

[–]dangerousopinions 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As opposed to a safe haven from the pressures of work, marriage can become an additional source of stress for men.

This may not be as true in the west as it is in Japan, but it's still true in the west for many men. There are exceptions of course and there are lots of great partnerships out there, but it's the exception.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Why the fuck would you work in IT in Japan? The money would have to be bloody good, but in any case you would be working 10 hour days and in all likelihood the pay would be ordinary. Japan has gazillions of competent programmers who also just happen to be fluent in Japanese...the only reason I can think of is you are working for an International company (8 hour days) in a niche area that pays well and requires perfect English.

Most English teachers earn very decent wages, have little competition if you are willing to move away from premium locations (basically Tokyo), and often only work around 6 hours a day (varies a bit). Despite what people say about the work drying up (somewhat true), if you are willing to relocate and move around you will never be out of work (especially if you are a white, native English speaker and being good looking helps!).

[–]snobocracy 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I'm a westerner who works as a programmer in Japan.
Yes, I have a disadvantage because my Japanese isn't perfect. Not many foreigners ever get 'as perfect as a native' Japanese level.

The thing is though I also have a huge advantage because I am native in English, which means I can communicate for the company on international projects.

Yes, the work is often more demanding than a simple English teaching job, but the reward is there too. And despite the stereotypes, some companies in Japan can be great to work for. More so in IT where the companies need to retain people with experience. Almost anyone fresh off the plane can replace a veteran of English teaching. I know the teachers will claim otherwise...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thanks for the insight.

What technology stack do you use?

[–]snobocracy 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The majority of my work is with LAMP.

[+][deleted] 11 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]anobaith 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You have to understand, the traits you find frightening, where the traits men of previous generations found comforting(from your description, they sound like the traditionalist women of yesteryear).

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