About two months ago i posted asking for some advice, i got that advice, and followed it.

My 6 year relationship completely changed. I started getting head, and regular sex, sex in public, spontaneous favors, respect, more calls, etc.

I kept following, and things have been successful.

Except for tonight. She turned me down Friday because she was having endometriosis pain, said we would do it Saturday, she went out with her girlfriends to a restaurant and got drinks, got home when i did (i get home around 10ish), but fell asleep quickly after. Mentioned (spontaneously) that she wanted to have to sex, but that she was exhausted.

I came home tonight, expecting to get some. She said we could, but that she was having some odd discharge, and didnt want me eating her out or fingering her, notmally how i make my move. We hung out for a bit after, and went and laid down, she wanted to go do it in the car, but started to nod off, and said we could just do it in the room.

I laid down to start going and she didnt want me to touch her down there, and wasnt really interested in starting me, no foreplay, tired girlfriend. Im soft as plush, i got a little upset, and started ti leave the room, she was wondering what was wrong i told her she wasnt into it, and that i dont want maintenence sex. We got into a little argument, and i got a little upset at her for not being into it, or putting forward an effort at all, she told me i was being ridiculous because my voice was slightly raised.

I went and had a cigarette, and she stayed in the room, i laid down and told her i still wanted to bang. She said “you had a cigarette, and now youre being nice?” I smiled and pulled her shorts off, and just started playing with her, put it in and fucked her hard, she came, i came, good time. We cuddled and she fell asleep on my chest.

I know its not the largest deal, but i broke frame hardcore surrounding sex, and got mad that she wasnt into it, even though she was willing. Normally shes into it, shit she cums in her pants from giving me head. How do i move forward, just the same and maintain frame?

I know i messed up by not taking charge the minute she said we could do it in the room, and i knew once i started fucking her shed be into it, but i just got upset that she wasnt like shes been lately.

So again, just maintain my previous frame? I havent broken frame for two months, so im asking because this is my first time breaking it.