So I have just finished reading The Rational Male book 1, and it is enlightening. And recently I got girls dating (3 of them actually) introduced to me thru match making old fashioned way. Girls are absolutely kind, thoughtful, well you know them afraid of exposing themselves (yeah after reading Rollo's work, I got the habit of being somewhat nihilistic/pessimistic in a sense), ages are 29-30. Let's say all three of them are 7s (they have good job/profession, family business which could be a 9, but attraction wise, they are around 5-6).

Girl 1 is my classmate which I've confess to, but turned down. Now that I've ghosted her, she's trying to rekindle the relationship.

Girl 2 is a purchaser for a big company, we don't talk so much as she's kind of a bore to talk with, but she's hardworking af (aside from her job, she also teach kids on weekends). We already talked about many of our dreams and aspiration, but communication wise, it's a bit lacking. Her work place and mine is about 10 mins away by car. But yeah as Rollo said, if a girl is interested in you, she's gonna do everything to break her rules.

Girl 3 is in a provincial area. She has a med store. Been with her for 3 days now, I even met with her family already, which I am already quite familiar with. Fam talks to me like a fam already and kinda wants their daughter for me. Her mom subtlely tries to bridge the gap for us, but these few days with the girl she's been kind of confusing between committing and LJBFing me, cuz I ask her about ldr stuffs. While we have our alone time together yesterday, I opened about it, but also said for her to think about it during the day. She keeps on volunteering to be with me, but also kind of reserve once I'm advancing. So I became uninterested and she began talking about other stuffs (I'm being treated as a teddy bear now). I also started reprimanding her for her driving habits (I'm new to the place and she wants to drive me around, but you know when girls drive...)

So since I'm new to this (kinda want to say I just graduated nursery with book 1), I want to know how to deal with this situation. For me, I know that Girl 3's fam, already invested in me and I love her fam, but ofc if she ain't interested, I can't do anything about it at all and just drop her. Girl 2 too. Both girls are still reserved in terms of personal lives, and I haven't played my cards at all (I know girl 2's head honcho).

Also my value is around 6.5-7.5, 5'8.5, 150lbs, 28yo, doing calisthenics for 4 months already. My communications skills is just average and currently I have great cooking skills. But I'm a jack of all trade, trying to master one thing right now. I want your advices for me to boost my improvement plan/relationship/plating for now.