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[–]sasageta_Vantablackpilled 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Must be so painful for the women dating chads 😢 sending thoughts and prayers!
[–]uselessloner123 10 points11 points12 points (2 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/ask/comments/16em224/comment/jzwrysr/
Guys remember this when a woman tells you you need to jump through 100 hoops to earn her love. She’s lying to you and setting you up to be a betabuxx
[–]NoSeaworthiness4436[S] 6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
There’s no copium left for the bluepillers
[–]FunEducation1434gonna Latingymax 10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
“ I asked the wife this question when we started dating. She's still laughing. “
https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/377/522/595.gif
[–]NoSeaworthiness4436[S] 3 points4 points5 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Broooootal
[–]fastrogamer14 -3 points-2 points-1 points (0 children) | Copy Link
How tf is that "brutal"? It's a funny joke
[–]zastale 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
LMAO I forgot about that video.
[+]RopeorDope1 -10 points-9 points-8 points (23 children) | Copy Link
The power of cherrypicking and confirmation bias. The inkwell story as old as time.
You need help.
[–]NoSeaworthiness4436[S] 18 points19 points20 points (5 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for your kind words have a blessed day
[–]Diligent_Divide_4978SciencePill 6 points7 points8 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Never give up. Anything is possible. God’s got a plan for you.
[–]NoSeaworthiness4436[S] 6 points7 points8 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Never get up. The Meeks will inherit the earth
[–]SadDogOfShiman0 2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm telling you guys, keep grinding, keep hustling.
[–]RopeorDope1 -4 points-3 points-2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
Same to you, may you realize the folly of your ways.
[–]NoSeaworthiness4436[S] 8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks but life is pretty great for me and thanks to the Blackpill I was motivated to glow up. Your kindness adds more joy for me :D
[–]sasageta_Vantablackpilled 8 points9 points10 points (7 children) | Copy Link
You need to get a hobby, or better yet a job, and stop obsessing over incel reddit threads.
[–]Critiqu3r 10 points11 points12 points (0 children) | Copy Link
he's hilarious lol
[–]uselessloner123 5 points6 points7 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m convinced this guy works in some capacity at a brothel. He spends way too much time telling people here to pay for escorts to get out of inceldom.
Also when I told him some of the rules regarding the legality of it he was impressed I knew the rules and where it is legal and where it isn’t
[–]RopeorDope1 -3 points-2 points-1 points (4 children) | Copy Link
Johan, is that you? When did you sign up for reddit and join the blackpill cult? Poor guy.
[–]sasageta_Vantablackpilled 10 points11 points12 points (3 children) | Copy Link
When did you sign up to be this sub's court jester?
[–]RopeorDope1 0 points1 point2 points (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn Johan, out here deflecting. That's crazy
[–]sasageta_Vantablackpilled 7 points8 points9 points (1 child) | Copy Link
How about you deflect yourself onto a job center
[–]RopeorDope1 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
I have one, thank you very much. Unless you're offering a better position? I'm always on the look
[–]uselessloner123 2 points3 points4 points (8 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t matter which cherry we pick. Almost all yield the same result
[–]RopeorDope1 0 points1 point2 points (7 children) | Copy Link
No, they don't. You just ignore the ones that disprove it.
[–]uselessloner123 2 points3 points4 points (6 children) | Copy Link
I don’t ignore it. The blackpill is all about trends.
Even 80/20, a commonly held blackpill stat suggests there are a small group of women who don’t chase Chad. But those women in my real life experience marry very early. Like out of high school or college max. There aren’t very many left on the adult dating market and it’s not worth talking about. Like sure you can also hit the lottery one day but nobody talks about that seriously when say for saving for retirement
[–]RopeorDope1 -1 points0 points1 point (5 children) | Copy Link
80/20 isn't true, though
[–]uselessloner123 3 points4 points5 points (4 children) | Copy Link
It is at least directionally true based on studies.
The controversial part about 80/20 isn’t that women find 1/5 men attractive, it’s the fact that their preferences are all actually quite similar.
[–]RopeorDope1 0 points1 point2 points (3 children) | Copy Link
Proof?
[–]uselessloner123 2 points3 points4 points (2 children) | Copy Link
1) Published by Harvard:
(Pay attention to Figure 5)
https://d3.harvard.edu/platform-digit/submission/exploitive-platforms-how-tinder-exploits-lonely-men-to-make-massive-profits/
2) https://gallery.mailchimp.com/2506bda6ca9a8b7ce8b3c54b4/files/1a8cc94c-6198-4f3d-b27d-8a6060ed6c5d/Tyro_Dating_Market_Thesis_Final_For_Twitter_Pub_v2.pdf
Look at page 5-6. Data comes from OK Cupid.
Women rate 19% of men 3/7 or higher while men rate 60% of women 3/7 or higher. The men’s assessment of beauty follows a normal distribution (what we would expect), while the women’s assessment of male beauty is massively right skewed.
-Some people try to argue away these results by saying OLD isn’t really life (usually older generation). But now 3/4 of couples are meeting through OLD or the bar/club . https://web.stanford.edu/%7Emrosenfe/Rosenfeld_how_hetero_couples_met_through2021v4.JPG
And in general social media is having a rising prevalence. I think one of the papers I sent you also shows a visual of the growing use of mobile phone usage (not really a shocker).
[–]RopeorDope1 0 points1 point2 points (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel like I keep disproving these points.
First data, let's take a look at the actual user base of Tinder: For 2021, 24% Women 75% Men.
Now riddle me this. How accurate is any source where the ratio is 24% women? Also, recent data in 2023 about app usage shows that dating apps have fallen. So you know these apps are massively uneven, but you want to keep dying on this hill. Come on.
And with Pew data, only 20% reported success with said apps.
"One-in-five partnered adults under 30 say they met their current spouse or partner on a dating site or app, as do about a quarter of partnered LGB adults (24%)." https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/02/02/key-findings-about-online-dating-in-the-u-s/
[–]uselessloner123 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
The “uneven” nature you mention is a bit complicated. In marketing analytics, the concept of a “user” is weighted based on their time on the platform. In fact when you look at the source your stat is referenced to it uses “monthly active users” as the metric. What that means is say you have an incel who sits on Tinder for an entire year, and then you have 12 females who get on Tinder for a month each, find a guy and then get off the platform or stay on but are inactive. When we count for them as users, the 12 females would actually be counted as 1 female user in each month, and the incel would be counted as 1 male user in each month, so they are treated the same, even though in my example there are far more total women who used the app.
The reason for this relates to the fact that ad revenue is directly tied to app and site usage. If I have someone who uses the app for only 1 month, they aren’t going to generate the same amount of ad revenue as someone who used the app for 12 months, so it makes logical sense to treat the former user as only 1/12 of a user.
I know this because I took a class on this in college as an elective mostly out of curiosity.
For your second link, OLD encompasses more than dating apps. So IG, TikTok, Snapchat, etc. I’m sure you’ve heard women complain about “creepy men” DMing them but a lot of people actually meet this way. Of course if the user DMing is more attractive or has a higher status, it would be more desirable.
I have no reason to believe the beauty standards on IG are any less strict than that of dating apps, simply because the same stereotypes and beauty standards that influence apps come from social media. The idea of fawning after tall guys cones from TikTok videos with a girl bragging about her tall man and tens of thousands of comments and likes.
[–]ropecellingropecelling 0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
My fellow heterosexual male redditors:
if you haven't experienced what the comments describe... face the music.