I have an ex "fwb" high-tier becky who I don't think I ever spoke to for longer than 15 minutes at a single time.

never went on a date, or even anywhere in public. she would usually come over, or in times where I was desperate, would go to her place since that was what she usually first suggested

I met her by being in her vicinity and her taking action, made no attempts to get with her

took a few years of her meeting me off and on, whenever I would txt something like "come over??? plz!!!" and she usuallu would, with her being in and out of relationships with guys she was using to pass the time unitl i committed

before she understood that I wasn't actually going to date her.

never had criticism of my lack of communication skills tho...

so every male should understand the communicationpill:

verbal communication skills beyond the ability to express sexual interest are unnecessary in getting a woman to want to sleep with you. If she criticizes your communication skills, you simply don't look good enough for her.