Crosspost "Why do western women refuse to give you their number?" from /r/OnlineDating:

Anyone else noticed this phenomenon? I usually ask for their number once we’ve built a connection and had a few good conversations over a few days.

But lately I’ve noticed that western women will always refuse and be like “I’d rather chat here until we’ve met in person”. Why are they so paranoid? I find tinder to be rather slow and clunky on my phone and sometimes it will crash. The experience is just a lot better on WhatsApp which is a more optimised app. Not to mention that in case something happens on tinder (eg salty girls reporting you for petty reasons) you’ll lose their contact forever.

I’ve also used tinder in south east Asia and girls will give me their number even just after a few lines of conversation!

If a western woman refuses to give me her number after a few days of chatting I now say “oh that’s a shame cause i’m done with this app and about to delete it, so no problem”. If they are really into you they WILL give you their number. If not then they aren’t worth it. It’s a good test to see if they have “genuine burning desire” for you.


Posted by AntiFeminismAU | 7 July 2022 | Link