Crosspost "Liberal feminism mind fucked me" from /r/FemaleDatingStrategy:

Lib feminisms taught me that men and women are totally equal and we should act equally. Split the bill 50/50 even when I spent thousands to look and feel great while he puts in little effort. Lib feminism also taught me that I have the right to look like shit instead of caring and loving myself. I feel so confident when I look and express myself with greatness, but lib feminism made me feel guilty for it and made me feel like I should actually be proud to be against the norms. Since I found this sub I've discovered so much about what I honestly enjoy, what I actually want, and what I should expect. I realized that I TRICKED MYSELF into thinking I liked playing video games with my boyfriend for YEARS.

Lib feminism taught me it's cool and good to fuck on the first date (even tho every time I did it it was a horrible "date" and horrible minute long sex). When my male friends would tell me about their "prude" dates I'd do the "I'm not like the other girls, I fuck on the first date, isn't that hot" routine. Lmfao what the fuck.

I've let myself fall apart and be used by men for too long and never again. Id let them use any and every INCH of me.

I'm disgusted realizing I've given every part off me away to LVM basically anytime they wanted it. Liberal feminism made me try to be equal to men ("we're really not that different 🤡") rather than realize the power dynamic and take all the power I can get. I gave up SO much of my power to coddle men and emboldened their bullshit which they then ruined me with.

I've been doing a lot of "cool girl" bullshit and being steamrolled by men my whole life. When I realized that I have 0 standards while being this fucking hot and smart, it shook me.

I listened to the FDS playlist all day today and I never truly understood that womanly queen power until today. I almost cried listening to Lizzo's Truth Hurts, I already knew all the words but I feel like I never really understood what a powerful woman was and I always felt embarrassed by "queen" or "goddess" I felt embarrassed by praising women "too much"

I am legit so beautiful, smart, passionate and successful and have acted like an utter pickme my whole life. totally caught up in infatuations, degrading myself for jokes, no confidence. What the fuck. No more.

I'm so happy to be here, FDS is life changing.

Note! This is a new acct. I'm happy to DM mods my old account to prove I'm a real person and a woman. I've been getting off that account because I found out people archive all your reddit posts.

Posted by ledvagen | 19 March 2021 | Link