How do you know the difference between a “good stare” and a “bad stare”

genericlatino · 2018-11-03T07:30:37+00:00

Very difficult to tell actually. I would say almost impossible. For the ones that like you its hard because some women are just friendly. Others are shy and feel embarrassed easily if they are attracted to you. The only way of knowing is basically approaching them and getting a feel if they want to talk to you through body language. If they get overly excited for a second only to seem cold that might mean they like you alot but are playing it cool or non nonchalant.

The best way is to approach them and see whether they give you one word answers and(this is very important) appear distracted. Some women are shy and will naturally give you one word answers but they usually wont be able to take their eyes off you or will be looking down to the ground. So if they give like one word answers + distracted it usually a no 100%. Still its hard cuz some women are just really friendly.

PovertyRyanGosling · 2018-11-11T04:21:07+00:00

It's difficult but go talk to them

SinglehoodVeteran · 2018-11-08T10:44:00+00:00

Looking at the rest of the face can help a bit. If the person has a slight scowl, furrowed brown, downturned lips, narrowed eyes, or one side of lop pulled up as if in displeasure/disgust, that's obviously a bad stare. The person doesn't look away as often either.

A good stare will have wider eyes, bigger pupils, a slight smile or upward quirk to the lips, smooth brow, slightly raised eyebrows, and will be willing to make intermittent eye contact, but not constant.

Remember, for both sexes prolonged direct eye contact can be viewed as threatening or challenging, so if a woman was staring at you in a friendly way and you "catch" her doing so, she'll look away so as to not come off as aggressive or assertive. If she doesn't give a shit or actually wants to be viewed as intimidating, she'll just keep staring rudely. This is also why some awkward men, who unintentionally keep staring at or maintaining unblinking eye contact with a woman even when being friendly otherwise, might be seen as "creepy" since their eye language is coming off as aggressive.

bathorygoat · 2019-01-24T19:28:33+00:00

Old post, but you'll just know.

If you're saying "that doesn't make sense because I've never had that feeling", then you know what means.

JazzonBH · 2018-11-02T21:28:09+00:00

I'm gonna assume we're talking about girls here.

Not much science behind it. If you can, try to soft-approach a girl that looks at you trough a friend or something. If you have no leads to grab onto just go and introduce yourself. From that point on it should be fairly easy to decipher what kind of a stare it was.

Once things work out enough times, or you get rejected enough times, your assumptions are gonna start becoming more and more precise.

Just analysing your looks based on the lookism principles should make it easy enough to determine if you look bad enough that people would stare at you for it, but since you're having a dilemma I'd assume that's most likely not to case. But you can't be sure until you man up.

circlingldn · 2018-12-13T06:25:05+00:00

if you dont look like a freak, they look at you because you catch their eye, could be clothing or cause they like you

For most guys, women will never acknowledge their existance

Title	How do you know the difference between a “good stare” and a “bad stare”
Author	Treesarescary
Upvotes	11
Comments	15
Date	November 2, 2018 7:17 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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