(We are excluding money and status. I'm talking strictly about looks and personality. This means we're assuming that the Boyfriend/Husband is middle class or lower class, not wealthy at all, and does not have high status. We're basically assuming that the woman is not having sex with the man or in a relationship with the man to use him for his money or status) (We're also excluding arranged marriages from this argument) (We're excluding prostitution from this argument) Women have to be physically attracted to you if their going to date or have sex with you. After they find you physically attractive, they will look at your personality.

Some women will date and have sex with men they find physically attractive, even if they don't like his personality. Some women will refuse to date and have sex with men they find physically attractive because she doesn't like his personality.

You can get away with a lot of personality flaws if women find you physically attractive.

First they determine if they find you physically attractive. If they don't, it stops there. If they do find you physically attractive, then they examine your personality.

With every rule there are exceptions. Any example you give me that is contrary to this, is an exception, not the rule.

There are Literally thousands of studies that prove my point. I'll link just one of those studies.

Here's an excerpt from the study: "We conclude that a minimum level of physical attractiveness is a necessity for both women and their mothers and that when women and their parents state that other traits are more important than physical attractiveness, they assume potential mates meet a minimally acceptable standard of physical attractiveness."

Proof https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0092-x