Anger

Plenty-Entertainer71 · 2024-03-29T19:26:48+00:00

I learned that I didn’t set boundaries when I was married I was just a yes man and believed in that happy wife happy life ideology found out that didn’t pan out real quick

WartimeDad · 2024-03-29T18:25:19+00:00

It’s not over until it’s over. And it’s not over for awhile. This is the way it goes, they jump out using the “playbook,” and get a huge lead. The goal is to rattle you, anger you, and get you to give up.

But you won’t give up. You’re going to take that anger and turn yourself into an indestructible Diamond of a man. Usually this means pushing the anger into heavy weights. She is going to be loving the attention right now, she will start going out and flaunting her shit as a newly single sexy and free woman. Men are savvy and will use her and leave her over and over. But in time all of this will reverse. She isn’t dealing with the underlying shit. She isn’t dealing with the fact that you’re a good man and she blew it up for no reason. Fuck her

You’re going to get through this. Right as you start to discover your freedom and find yourself dating hotter and much better women, that’s when she will start to be like “oh fuck.” And you won’t care at all. While she is in her downward spiral you’ll be out there free and clear minded. And oh that spiral is coming for her, I promise you.

Financially it’s not pretty. But in the end you are so much better off being away from this monster of a woman. Hang in there. You’re not alone.

Enjoyingtheride86 · 2024-03-29T17:09:38+00:00

Bro this is how it goes. Even when they end it, They can’t just leave, they have to try and destroy you in the end. The God complex is astonishing, why do some people make it their personal mission to destroy someone they don’t even want to be with anymore? The fact is (I’ve had the same experience) most times, You were a decent guy and they couldn’t pin the blame on you and they CERTAINLY weren’t going to accept They are the problem. So they convince themselves that you’re scum and deserve this treatment. As best as possible, ignore it, don’t try to find sense or logic in it, and only communicate by text/email if necessary. Whenever you communicate, just remember she is sharing it with others so keep your cool and stay cordial. My ex left in 2018 and is still giving me crap and can’t be a normal human being. I have kids with her so stuck with her for a few more years but happier than ever

Title	Anger
Author	mooleywonk
Upvotes	8
Comments	3
Date	March 28, 2024 8:00 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1bpq2q4/anger/
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