So I’m in a different situation- lesbian but sole provider and going through a divorce and custody (she is stay at home mom) so I felt like I could find like people here.

Just finished the first court hearing. It’s going to be a bitter divorce. Her mental state is bad. I’m trying to keep my head above water. We had planned moving the family to another city a few hours away and now she is refusing to. I’m paying for two mortgages, a car, bills, renovations. I’m traveling every weekend to see my kids. I’m overloaded and want to connect with others going through this shit.

This is a struggle and I’m tired of feeling lm unloading on my friends. I’m in therapy but so much happens every day that I’m hoping to connect.