Wife moved out 6 weeks ago and we came to a verbal custody agreement...she's been generally hard to communicate with. Since mid March it has been openly agreed that we are going to divorce and both expressed intrest in settling on an agreement to save our money and time. In the past 2 weeks all responses to any of my questions have become that its none of my business what she is doing and shes undecided on what she wants out of our divorce....when she decides then we'll talk about it. After a weekend of events that pushed me beyond acceptable including letting my kiddo go out of state without me knowing I tried to make time to discuss what was understood by our agreement and the only answers given were demanding to know who I was consulting for legal advice....then communication was stopped again....without resolving an easter plan to include her family since sunday falls to my custody time.

Everyone ive spoken to says im paranoid and her family wouldn't do anything like keeping me from my kiddo but the communication and attitude from her side has me so freaked out I can barely breathe. Please just someone let me know that im not crazy and rushing to file and get some sort of temporary order for custody is the right move. I don't want anything but fair and equal but having every move dictated at her pace seems like a stall and setup play, especially since everything this weekend seems to have been done to provoke angery outbursts or show unwillingness to compromise....made it thru without anything serious happening but it's just too damn close