More than likely a divorce or full seperation is coming. I'm not getting into details but I'm more pushing for it then my wife for reasons. I'm feeling guilty because every since we had kids I let her be a SAHM and I worked for the family. I took pride in that, with a. Seperation, she will have to get a joba and to be honest it hurts me. She hates working and she's the mother of my children. I just hate that for her. Idk should we stay living together til our kids are older? Idek. We homeschool then right now