Uncertainty is an uncomfortable position. But certainty is an absurd one.

Voltaire

And thus welcome.

On a more personal note, the best and worst in me was in response to qualities of my parents.

If you want truly aweful reading (uk centric) look at mankind, a men's charity.

Welcome to a transitional time.

It will hurt and cause injustice and harm.

But whilst uncertainty is uncomfortable, Im certain my stbxw was certain. Asked her with every threat. Offered her the alternative.

But there was no other way. Thus it is absurd to worry about these things. The rest is voluntary conditioning.

Empathy is a different beast. Im not sure most people empathise with threat.

Silly girl.

Onwards.