Posted this on another subreddit, but. Felt like I had to share this with you guys too!

So today. I made a Facebook account, found the guys wife that my STBX is having an affair with. (Yes I know I should of done this last year when I found out) and sent her a message via messenger to contact me (this was earlier this morning) a few hours ago I get a phone call from a blocked number. I wasn’t going to pickup, but I did. It was the guys wife we spoke and I told her everything. She wasn’t in shocked, since he cheated on her years ago and had a kid with another women as well. Then she stated was it so and so I told her no and then she stated that she knew about another coworker of his that he has been seeing. So I mentioned my STBX and she got upset and hurt and said that they are still married and just made 23yrs together. then sent me a txt with her email and numbers and wanted everything I had. So I sent it to her. Once she got the emails. she wanted my STBX number. So I went ahead and gave it to her.

We hung up, she calls me back 10mins later and tells me she spoke to my STBX and that she kept denying everything until she mentioned her husbands name. That’s when she hung up and blocked her. Then she called her husband and began to deny everything.

I got a txt saying that her husband told his job about the affair that he has been having. And she stated that he lies a lot and I stated that my STBX wouldn’t be stupid to let her bosses know, but I’m sure that some coworkers knew about it.

This guys wife also stated that they have a joint account together and that he hasn’t charged anything, so I told her that my STBX is the one paying for everything and she agreed and stated that his days off are fridays and saturdays. And my STBX has been leaving my kids with my aunt which comes from Pa the entire weekend so my STBX can be with the idiot.

The guys wife said he made sure he got fired from his job when he had the first affair and she will make his job and my STBX job worse by this week and make sure that he or both will pay for the crap they done.