Together 14, married for 12, 3 kids together.

Separated for a year (same house) divorced for over 5 months.

I had build up a severe lack of self esteem, self love and a very strong and deep depression over the last 14 years with her.

I finally start to grow as a person, i have a very good friend now (awesome brother that i met due faith) Something i wanted to have for such a long time, a real genuine friend, not those bullshit "friends" from my hobbies, that are always absent unless you do the hobby.

I started to work out daily, i got this ugly gut and was out of shape, it did not help my self esteem at all.

Now i am loving myself by tiring myself out in the gym everyday.

I have 4 trips in the EU booked for this year and more travel trips in the pipeline for next year (Traveling, meeting new people, relying on yourself, its freaking amazing!!!)

The ex is now a surragate subsitude to me, that has helped me to get my 3 lovely boys, she is nothing more to me. I have a strict no contact policy which works fantastic!