So its that time, after being with my wife since i was 15yrs old (im now 28) she has decided that she wants too know what freedom is. Best part is this was while she was pregnant with my last son. I had been forced out of my home for 3 months while she was pregnant for seperation. Was a hard 3 months for me yet wasnt for her. I ended up moving back in when the baby was born too help and too try too fix things. Its amazing how much someone can change there life in 3 months. New friends new priorities etc. I was no longer her best friend. But I fought even after, and now we are coming up on 7 months since the original break. And she has made a final decision (also in this time she was diagnosed with bipolar) so that makes alot of sense with alot of the shit ive had too deal with be it one second her loving me deeply and the next pulling back in disgust when i touch her shoulder. Its been a long road. And im no saint in the relationship. I got lazy complacent i get why i dont blame her for losing sight as i did. I have 4 young boys and i only wanted one (I couldnt live without a single one of those assholes though) she begged me since pretty much the day i met her too give her a home a dog get married and have a baby. We had a scare when i was 16 and she was excited about it. Anyways getting off subject. So now im here. At this moment i dont know if I am in shock or just really good at moving on but im excited for the hereafter. As far as getting out of the stress that is my life atm. We are both best friends again all of a sudden. So maybe it will stay the same and ill be alright but i know eventually emotions will arise again.. yay. So anyways im glad there is a place for questions. I wanted too introduce myself etc. My first day off of work we will be going in too file for divorce together. Are divorce shouldnt be hard as we dont have anything too really offer. I have a house which i am working towards selling the money will first go too pay off our debt then the rest will be split. She doesnt want spousal support which is kind of her. And the obvious obligation of child support which... hope that doesnt kill me. We will see. Ill have too move in with my father for a bit while i figure out my next move. I loved her harder then any man could. And thats all i could do. So now its time for me not you. Ill be back on here for sure if and when i have any questions have a good one men stay strong.