A few days ago my wife 25F and I 30M decided to separate and get a divorce after 3 years together (2 married). She told me I was emotionally unavailable, not attentive and never trusted her. All valid things but it’s not like I never tried to make it work, and these last few months have been tough because that’s when she started distancing herself. She told me she had already grieved our relationship and she has made her mind that she doesn’t want to be with me. This hurts a lot because we had plans for the future, we wanted a family and just grow old together. I still can’t come to the fact that is over and I’m still in love with her and I just want her and no one else. It’s been a tough time for me and I just wanted to talk to people who have experienced this before in hopes of getting advice on how to let go and not hurt anymore, it’s too much.