Marriage is rough

cornfusedd · 2019-11-23T03:57:00+00:00

Her commitment to her job is admirable, but her commitment to you should be priority. I understand the law is the law, however, it would seem that she knew full well that you used in the beginning. There’s nothing wrong with using a natural substance to treat your symptoms, especially if they don’t interfere with your daily life. A compromise on deciding if it’s worth ending a marriage and hurting the kids would be a discussion worth having. It’s something so trivial. She can turn the other cheek. To me it’s not something that should end a marriage. There’s talks about congress going forward with decriminalizing marijuana and removing it from the controlled substances act. Until then, do some research, have your valid arguments prepared, and realize that you are both in this together. If it’s something they can’t handle, then there are bigger talks to have. Until then, you do you, and be the best father and husband you can be. This is something you can work through.

Trinity0519 · 2019-11-23T01:31:54+00:00

Move to Canada! Pot is legal here and it's no big deal if you smoke!

sadkratom · 2019-11-23T03:01:05+00:00

Are there still states where marijuana is a crime??

afr0d0wnb3l0w · 2019-11-23T03:09:08+00:00

And it’s dumb as hell

cornfusedd · 2019-11-24T03:34:15+00:00

I fully agree with all that you have to say. Knowing full well that they got together on the premise that he used would garner the idea that this is something she would have to deal with. What irked me about the post entirely was her unilateral decision to say if he used again that would mean divorce. There was no compromise or thought given, at least in the OP’s description, and that made me think that she wasn’t open to any type of discussion regardless. That’s not a marriage. My words of encouragement were not to stick it to the man, but to say if she can’t support or encourage him, then there are much bigger issues to look at. I understand career means a lot and can make or break someone. I’m going through a divorce because of career among other things. I do understand the value and importance, and all I wanted to convey was the priority of THEIR relationship, especially considering there were kids involved. There seems to be no right or wrong answer, just support.

Title	Marriage is rough
Author	afr0d0wnb3l0w
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	November 23, 2019 1:22 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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