Divorce is a traumatic experience not doubt about it and we can all agree but the decision tree is where its at -I see people in this thread complaining about how their Ex /soon to be Ex wife’s behavior changing and they swear that she’s the Devil but I need to tell you that if you had paid attention you’d have seen it coming from a mile away . Do you remember those silly arguments you use to have and she’d throw a “tantrum” yes that’s the moment you’d have seen the real her but you chose to ignore it . Forget the love 💕 love is an infatuation it blinds you from seeing things it’s like that magic trick you first saw,there is that sound of inevitability but you keep ignoring it. The real truth is the law of causality,the only constant and we are forever slaves to it and the only path to peace and power is to understand why we do the things we do.Trust me I am in the verge of loosing everything a couple of million bucks going to the drain because I chose to ignore that voice ,I over looked it,I despised it as insecurity and I ,i,I chose the path of the unknown. We as men have to take care of business-it’s like the scene on Good Fellas “you are sick “you Fukin pay me “ ,you lost your job “you Fukin pay me “ bad weather “you Fukin pay me “ . You’d rather live a life of freedom than of slavery -especially if you have kids -one way or another sadly they’ll look at you as a dead beat even if you provide the world to them -your kids will just be poisoned by their environment and sadly as men we can’t rationalize that enough and understand the long game -:( they’ll develop bad habits and you’ll be affected by it more than she can,they’ll be fat ,they do bad in school etc and as a father you have no say because you are still a slave to her and your kids !everyone of them “you Fukin pay me “ not saying there aren’t unicorns out there but they are far in between. Take Care of business pay your dues it might be hard but try your best every single day and do not bet on a human soul to make you better-its you to make yourself better even your children when it’s said and done ✅ they are just pimping their dad out .. “you Fukin pay me “ .