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Recently divorced

Ok-Reach-201 · 2026-03-03T08:39:51+00:00

I've just divorced my very long distance partner and am looking to get back into dating, any hints and tips would be greatly appreciate, I am based in the...

Ok-Reach-201

March 3, 2026

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Title	Recently divorced
Author	Ok-Reach-201
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	March 3, 2026 8:39 AM UTC (5 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/1rjk5k3/recently_divorced/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/recently-divorced.1574636 https://theredarchive.com/post/1574636

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[–]bob_dazz 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Enjoy it. Be honest. Try and mix a dip into online dating with real world events - meeting people with shared interests.

People hate the apps but they are really quite useful to get matched with people who share common ground. Use Claude or an AI to coach you on creating a solid profile - but make it yourself. Shoot your shot and take a chance on people that you might not think you’ll be compatible with.

I go on for a week or two and then pause my accounts, then start up again when I’m ready. And I typically only talk to a match or two max at a time. If I match with someone I really want to invest in I stop swiping.

Be intentional, and forget all the shit about what people are looking for. No one really knows what or who they want until it turns up. Keep your expectations low and your red lines high.

😉

[–]Ok-Reach-201[S] 0 points1 point2 points 5 months ago (0 children) | Copy Link