Found out my wife wants a divorce back in April, 2 months later she tells me cheated we would've been 5 years this November. 2 kids, a home, were being civil I'm not paying child support or taking full custody trying to be as nice as I can tl help our kids have a normal life despite what's going on but... how do i cope? I've become severely depressed, I get anxiety attacks everyday it seems like because we still live together until all of our debts paid and the house is sold so neither of us come out in debt or broke, I mean I'm coming out of this in good standing but it still doesn't change the fact of my emotions. I was a care free guy nothing bothered me. I was always the happy go getter now I'm a hermit, my performance at work has slipped I drink every night when I'm out of town for business. I still love her and we will 100 percent never get back together. What am I suppose to do? I've gone to bars, coffee shops, stores trying to make new friends trying to do the whole you do you but she's always on my mind and it just causes me to get pissed, then depressed and gives me a anxiety attack..how do I get past this I've tried everything I can think of these past 5 months any advice to move on mentally and emotionally? Should note yes I'm 23 and have a career already so personally I'm fine when it comes to my future and everyone tells me your young go get some and move on I can't just bring myself to do that, we've known each other for 8 years..