So I have/had been with my wife for almost 20 years, with two teenage kids and a life we built together. I will preface this with letting you know she’s bipolar and we have struggled with it but got through it together. She has been distant the last couple months, worse in the last couple weeks. She was staying with a friend from work, and struggling with mental health. I believed her and trusted her. She came two weeks ago and said she wanted a divorce then said she didn’t know what she wanted. I called it up to stress and her bipolar which she was working on. Come to find out she was seeing someone else and doesn’t love me anymore. I still love her, and she says she still cares for me just fell out of love. I honestly am not even that mad about it, just the lies.
I’m hoping it’ll be easy as she doesn’t want anything and wants to help cover bills. I’m not sure, any advice or hope things will get better or easier. She was/is my best friend and now I don’t feel I have to many people to talk to cuz it was always her.
Anything for advice or hope or at this point anything positive?