The sub has been tremendously helpful. I got to hear a lot of experiences and wisdom here. It is truly THE place for people dealing with the struggle.

I think that no matter what the story is, separation, divorce, dealing with kids, new reality, finances, is an absolute nightmare... I can see the light at the end of the tunnel though, and I think for me that's enough. For those who can't see it yet, stay afloat my friend it will get better, every rapid ends...

Leaving ex out of this for a bit, the fact that many things are out of your control, some you don't understand, is frightening. But a bit of stoic and red pill wisdom helped me. At some point you just need to surrender to it to see it through.

Not in a best position to give advise but this is what helped me: keep working on yourself, work out every single day if you can, take the red pill - I wish I did this sooner, improve your skills, money matters -- focus on this, do it, now that you have no one around to whine about things, understand female nature and do NOT get stuck with no other options - very bad idea!

Looks, money, game.

Ive always had a bit of an imposter syndrome, but I found out that with some work you can do a LOT better. Keep moving forward. Peace out ✌️