So I dont know how or where to start this so bare with me. 34m have been fighting with my wife and nothing is getting resolved. Our marriage goes in a cycle of things get really good then we have a disagreement or something like that and it feels like it just escalated. She gets mad and yells and speaks disrespectful to me which I dont handle well and walk away to keep from me escalating things further. This pisses her off more and it never seems like we work thru it peacefully and normally gets to the point of her just saying she wants a divorce and doesnt want anything to do with me

I leave her alone after she tells me she doesnt wanna talk to me. Then she'll start texting me trying to push my buttons and I get pissed off and say stupid things.

In our fights, she always says its my fault or I'm the only one to blame but if I say something to explain or talk thru things she flips it and tells me she feels like I'm just putting the blame on her. It's never a short coming between the 2 of us and things we need to work on together

I'm just tired of being made to feel as tho I'm the only to be blamed or that my happiness will only come when she is satisfied with how she is being made happy.

I honestly just feel like its time for us to split and us be co parents for our daughter.

This is for discussion and looking help

Thank you