Literally Proving the Guy’s Point

The-Minmus-Derp · 2024-10-12T12:28:46+00:00

My favorite response to this bullshit is “in france they execute princesses”.

Ill-Association-8410 · 2024-10-12T04:00:55+00:00

sigh

Don't raise your children like royalty, maybe only if you are a queen or king yourself, lol. There are Women who wants her partner to treat her like a queen and there are Men who wants his partner to treat him like a king. As always, it's something that happens with BOTH genders. We are just used to rejecting one more than the other rather than both.

When I think "my father treated me like a princess," I think this:

He raised me to be...

Dependent and entitled: Expecting others to cater to my needs and fulfill my desires without necessarily contributing in return.
Sheltered and naive: Lacking resilience and the ability to cope with challenges or setbacks due to being overly protected.
Focused on external validation: Seeking approval and validation based on my appearance or social status rather than internal worth.
Materially driven: Placing a high value on possessions and status symbols, potentially struggling with delayed gratification or financial responsibility.
Lacking accountability: Struggling to take ownership of my actions or learn from mistakes due to a history of being excused for my behavior.

And I might be expecting a partner who...

Pampers and prioritizes me above all else.
Takes care of all the practical aspects of life, allowing me to focus on my own desires and interests.
Constantly showers me with compliments and gifts.
Avoids conflict or confrontation, always agreeing with my opinions and wishes.

When I think "my mom treated me like a prince," I think this:

She raised me to be...

Entitled and demanding: Expecting special treatment and having a low tolerance for frustration or inconvenience.
Lacking in self-reliance: Struggling with basic life skills and relying on others to take care of my needs.
Egotistical and lacking empathy: Having an inflated sense of self-importance and difficulty understanding or considering others' perspectives.
Prone to anger or aggression: Resorting to anger or aggression when my expectations are not met, potentially having difficulty managing emotions constructively.
Disrespectful of boundaries: Struggling to understand or respect others' limits and personal space, particularly in relationships.

And I might be expecting a partner who...

Caters to my needs and desires without complaint.
Admires and validates me constantly.
Takes care of all the household chores and responsibilities.
Submits to my authority and avoids challenging my opinions.

Title	Literally Proving the Guy’s Point
Author	meeralakshmi
Upvotes	107
Comments	6
Date	October 12, 2024 1:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/EverydayMisandry
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