Is polyamory really cuckoldry? Are men into hotwifes really low value betas likely to be cheated on?

RedPillDetox · 2016-02-22T18:53:41+00:00

Well,yeah, according to TRP dogma, you lose if your girlfriend/wife is having sex with someone else. The way i see it though, if a man is happy with other dudes having sex with his wife then he completly wins. At this point a TRPer would be like "yeah, but evoloooooootion made us against sharing our wife with other guys", up to which i'll reply that's a biological determinism fallacy and that in many tribes, like the ones in south america (ex.: Canela people of Brazil; Also view the "Sex at Dawn Hypothesis") polyamory is normal or that (if i'm not mistaken) at least 58 tribes practice polyandry. Humans are the most sexually diverse animal, so shut the fuck up TRP.

According to David Buss, Cuckoldry varies from 1% to 30%, the most common statistic being 10% (at least when measure by the amount of children that are fathered by someone who's not their biological father). In terms of prevalence of cheating it's about 25-30% for women, but it varies widely too...

Anyway, there's no problem with "cuckoldry" or sharing your girl with someone else IF and only IF you REALLY are okay with it. A little bit of jealousy may be normal, but if you're really bothered by it and don't do anything then you should. I'm an happy monogamist, but i don't condone polyamorous people at all.

qwerboi · 2016-02-22T02:59:18+00:00

Well, one of their prime beliefs is the idea that

"Men are keys, women are locks. If a key opens a lot of locks, it is a master key. If a lock is opened by a lot of keys, it is a defective lock."

The idea of a woman you are with having sex with someone else, to them, would be one of the worst things that could possibly happen. Then add in the fact that they completely mistrust women, meaning they would always believe that a woman interested in polyamory must not be satisfied sexually with her man and is lying to him.

I could see why there aren't many replies from The Blue Pill though - monogamy is the norm in our society and polyamory is not, so this is one subject that 1) society actually agrees with red pillers on and 2) I bet a lot of blue pillers even agree with red pillers on. Maybe not in the same terms as red pillers, but certainly the base belief that monogamy is the right thing.

bashar_speaks · 2016-02-22T03:30:59+00:00

Who cares? When you start using their vocabulary (i.e., "beta bux"), you're already lost.

Redpillers are ignorant, hate-filled people who like to hate everything that is different. They are sexist, racist, and homophobic. Of course they are going to hate polyamorists.

wazzup987 · 2016-02-22T12:19:45+00:00

well first off being a cuckold and being poly are fundamentally two different things.

They also have the belief that any man who joins the poly community is a low-value fool who's just been brainwashed to accept women are better than him. Any wife in a poly situation isn't attracted enough to her BB to be monogamous to him, she wants to continue being promiscuous while retaining the power in the relationship.

I assure based on my experience in the poly community this is not true that is their insecurity showing.

Why is the red pill obsessed with cukoldry? How common is this?

insecurity

ariagrayx · 2016-03-09T13:56:50+00:00

They also have the belief that any man who joins the poly community is a low-value fool who's just been brainwashed to accept women are better than him. Any wife in a poly situation isn't attracted enough to her BB to be monogamous to him, she wants to continue being promiscuous while retaining the power in the relationship.

Are you claiming that the generally held belief about polygamy is that the wife initiates it instead of the man? This is actually the most absurd thing I've ever heard.

[deleted] · 2016-02-22T01:51:04+00:00

Why is the red pill obsessed with cukoldry?

Why are Catholic priests obsessed with homosexuality?

Title	Is polyamory really cuckoldry? Are men into hotwifes really low value betas likely to be cheated on?
Author	tinytiger4321
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Date	February 22, 2016 1:35 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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