What is the redpill to you?

BMXTKD · 2020-05-11T11:52:45+00:00

Here's what redpilling supposedly meant to me:

Women are self centered, narcissistic and childish.

Here's what spitting out the red pill made me realize:

Women are self centered, narcissistic and childish because human nature itself is self centered, narcissistic and childish, and western society encourages this sort of self centered behavior.

It's the same no matter what political or personal philosophy you encounter.

Misandrist: How dare you tell me I'm a bigot! You men are trash!

MAGAette: Garbling conspiracy theory noises followed by "You hate America!"

Evangelical Atheist lady: *Some strawman attack that somehow makes all and any religion invalid, when it's really just them debunking

Americanized Evangelical Christianity* "Don't tell me what you believe in, I say you're a snake handling fairy tale believer"

Evangelical Christian lady: Garbled noises about the Bible even though they can't read a lick of Greek, Aramaic, Hebrew or Latin "Gaaaawwd will judge you*

All the women I mentioned above think they're above reproach or scrutiny. All of these women I mentioned live in a bubble without scrutiny. Which is what the red pill supposedly say all women are like. But check your average RP forum, and it's the same out of touch, self centered, bubble.

The more a person doesn't have to pay for the consequences of their actions, the more they act like the Karen stereotype. The RPers want to create their own utopia where they don't want to pay for the consequences of their actions, rather than making people own their shit. That's not how life works.

The more you're forced to pay for your own consequences, the more empathy you tend to gain. The RPers were never taught the consequences of their actions.

That being said, TRP taught me not to take shit from people. But then again, you don't have to be a predatory male supremacist in order not to take shit from people, you just simply have to not take shit from people.

2020-05-11T05:09:34+00:00

Was an eye opener for me when I ended a toxic three month relationship with an exe suffering from mental health problems. I had never experienced anything like that and it was affecting me in ways I didn’t understand I was depressed I was sad and suicidal. And everywhere I turned I was told man the fuck up and no one understood what I was going through so I started researching online and I found the community but unfortunately a lot of men in the red pill community are suffering and are angry.

IchBinEinDrache · 2020-05-11T12:01:11+00:00

The red pill to me is when you become loathsome and angry at the world for the actions of a few. In my case, I was angry with every woman for the way I've been treated in the past.

As for exredpill, it's when you've become a better person by toughing it out through your circumstances. I became an exredpill after getting my dream bod, great hobbies and focusing on my career. It was a 2 year process. I started seeing the types of women I used to hate behaving differently around me. I'm still somewhat of the belief that women instinctively behave inside of a certain pattern... But now, I also believe that there are women who don't. Those are the ones I'm gunning for.

Honestly, the best thing anyone can do is to stop giving a fuck about anyone that isn't you. If there's any dudes reading that need to hear this; genetics do not make or break a man. Never forget that.

beigesun · 2020-05-11T08:06:57+00:00

Redpill is a defense mechanism, I was hurt badly in a past relationship by a woman who was on game. She made a lot of money, IG clout, abundant social life, & knew how to optimize it (mindfuck me) during our relationship. I use that term because I didn’t have those things & wasn’t being the best version of myself. Therefore I put a lens on women & myself, playing judge on people’s life choices while not having my things together.

Fast forward I meet a girl who by redpill standards is absolutely not relationship worthy, but I was denying her humanity & suppressing my insecurities. I realized life will do whatever it wants with you & if you don’t fight back it’ll sweep you away. I’m not absolutely back to normal & still believe in some of the positive attributes of redpill philosophy, but I’m giving myself & the women I meet the right to be human. Which we all are. A measure of a man is how much truth he can bare.

umichiganbackup45 · 2020-05-12T01:43:58+00:00

I honestly think it’s being a leader and accepting the truth for what it is.

In my humble opinion, all the guys who worship dating coaches like AMS or study subs like AskTRP are not red-pill nor alpha. They’re just followers who think they are.

If women are “all the same” “all sluts” and “all cheaters” why do these “red-pilled” men get in relationships with them? Wouldn’t it make sense to not get in a relationship at all?

Carloverguy20 · 2020-05-11T06:53:47+00:00

I found out about the redpill back in 2017-2018, i was 21 years old halfway through college, hadn't found the one yet, was struggling in school, worrying about time running out and if i don't find the one, have my life together by 25 that i'm an epic failure, so i typed in "never had a girlfriend", and then i found out stuff about incel, redpill, mgtow, all of the rabbit hole, and i started talking differently, started using cringey words like chad, tyrone, normie, friendzone, females, beta, alpha, cuck, mangina, soyboy etc, and i subscribed to most redpill channels and watched every video religiously.

In late 2019 i spat out the redpill and realized that it's okay to not be where you are at in life, and that those groups attract dudes like me, never had a serious relationship, had a bad relationship and can easily dupe and manipulate dudes into thinking those things. I never fully subscribed to the group, but i never hated women at all, i have female friends, i've been on dates, lots of guys who are RP, MGTOW, Incel etc, seem to have misogynistic views of women and say stuff like "Women hit the wall", "Women are children" and "Pump and Dump", i thought those comments were true, but they were false.

Hkr0067 · 2020-05-20T17:23:15+00:00

To me, it's a bunch of bitter men who in their vulnerability became duped into following a philosophy that turns talking to women into a sport.

These vulnerable men who had genuine desires to connect with the opposite sex felt so bad about themselves that they bought any lingo that turned women into the obstacle to overcome, instead of looking inward at themselves.

Women became the conquest.

It's a sad way of living.

CharlesManson_exe · 2020-05-15T23:07:41+00:00

The subreddit: A circle jerk of damaged men looking to boost their own egos by interpreting science in a way to form a personality that isn't really their true personality.

Red Pill: Knowing the truth behind everything and being okay with it.

Title	What is the redpill to you?
Author	OrbusQuail
Upvotes	11
Comments	8
Date	May 11, 2020 4:41 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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