This is a general question, I have just started a relationship with a seemingly hvm and we have been dating for a month and he hits all the green marks until I looked up our past conversation. Before our relationship we chatted a lot on message and I never looked at the messages until recently when I was curious about his past and to be fair, I told him I never want to hear about his exes ever but this is before we got into a relationship. He told me he had a FWB with a girl from 2017-2019 and a diff one in 2016. my mind completely forgot about it but now that i think about it, this is super close to the date we are in (2021). That was his past, now for mine, I was a sex worker online 2017-2020 stopped, then I also got r*ped in 2020 from my ex. We have not had sex yet and I honestly do not know when I will have sex with him like it probably will take more than a year for me to feel comfortable to have sex. He told me twice months apart that " Sex is overrated tbh" and that's why I feel comfortable with him to be able to wait as long as I want and he also knows about my r*pe situation. It's just that the FWB I had forgotten about it but now I am starting to feel bad about myself (and no he has no contact to these other women). Have you ever had these feelings? I feel like everything is in the right place in my life but I just brought up stuff to worry about for no reason.. Like I feel my sexual experience was always transactional online then the time I had sex it was with someone that r*ped me. Should I tell him all this? What are your opinions?