Amen. Getting married young doesn’t have to be your goal.You are more than just a person waiting for a man to choose you.

sunkissed-gal

July 7, 2019

25 upvotes

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Title	Amen. Getting married young doesn’t have to be your goal.You are more than just a person waiting for a man to choose you.
Author	sunkissed-gal
Upvotes	25
Comments	19
Date	July 7, 2019 4:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/ca8ju5/amen_getting_married_young_doesnt_have_to_be_your/
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[–]Samsquamch1171 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This is really bad advice and is a great way to flush your life away.

You are at your peak attractiveness in your late teens and early 20s. Top-tier guys in their 30s and 40s will be able to date 20 somethings, they won’t want to date/marry you if you’re older and can’t give him children. Once you hit 35 your attractiveness hits the wall hard and your ability to have kids without birth defects increases dramatically.

You can live your life how you want but there’s a limited window to work with if you want a family. Men don’t give a shit about how much money you make or how much school you have. There isn’t a degree in the world that gets a dudes dick hard. If you want a family (the vast, vast majority of women do) without emotionally scarring your kids by not having a father figure, you have to make a deal with a man.

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[–]lol19693 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

she constantly compares your sexual performance to all the other fish in the sea she smashed.

Ouch is that what happened to you? LOL!! Yikes. Sounds like a personal issue you're holding onto and if I were you I wouldn't be repeating this to other people, its kind of embarrassing to you lol.

In that case, sleeping around with literally every viable person with no regard to consequences, that's the kind of behaviour that won't land you a good partner even if you're a man. Extemely high promiscuity and risky behaviour is unappealing in men too. Good people don't want to marry impulsive idiots who can't be trusted to keep their genitals in their pants. How can you be a good father if you're hooking up with everything that moves? No one wants to have kids with men who have multiple children by different women unless they're broke and bottom of the barrel women. Women who are intelligent and responsible stay away from those kinds of red flags. So you're not saying anything intelligent or new here.

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[–]Mizhoki24 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I'm not even interested in a relationship to begin with, also I am no kissless virgin, I just don't think a relationship is really worth it. By many partners I think you mean those bad boys that give you false hope then dump you for the higher shelf girl in the sexual marketplace. Some of the stuff you say make me believe you've never actually been in a relationship or fallen for the terrible ones and assume it's all men. If anything it's the woman who really start to get lonely without partners because guys don't need all the attention woman require. I am perfectly content working my ass off and eventually retiring free with no shackles or anyone telling me what to do. I don't think I have magical powers of persuasion and I'm just trying to warn you before you end up "alone and miserable" as you say.

[–]lol19691 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm not even interested in a relationship to begin with, also I am no kissless virgin

Just a word of advice, maybe you shouldn't be telling people this? It kind of proves the whole "you're only mad at women because you can't sleep with them, and youre only slut shaming because you're insecure" thing. Sorry your life turned out this way. My condolences. Honestly I know you won't like to hear this but you should look into working on developing better self esteem and compassion skills. Like maybe join a meditation class at your local Buddhist centre? A word of advice, people can practically smell it when you're a guy who hates yourself and other people. You sound like someone whos reasonably smart and you think you deserve to be loved, but if you can't learn to love other people and treat other people kindly (and yourself kindly) you'll always be alone and miserable.

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