Long story short, I was out of the dating world for several years due to a non-existent libido and muted emotions from antidepressants. I recently got back into the dating world and was shocked at how SHIT it is.

I went on several failed dates, all with guys who I would consider fuck boys, who led me on and took advantage of my good nature. Those experiences really fucked me up mentally and took me off track.

Finally, last night I had a total epiphany... I don’t know where it came from, but I snapped out of my bad mood, deleted all my dating apps, and told myself right then and there that I REFUSE to put my energy into men who are totally not worth it. The ones that are waving red flags from the start. The ones that I know are trouble. I just don’t have the TIME for it. I am going to continue focusing on myself, my goals, my dreams, my life. I will not settle for less than I deserve. Not now and not ever. This sub definitely helped me see things differently and I am thankful for that. Also, someone I really admire, Shallon Lester on YouTube, helped me see how valuable I really am as a woman. I’d highly recommend her videos and podcast!