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[–][deleted] 26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is not argue or try to prove your point and just walk away. It's best to let idiots be idiots.
[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is what fds has helped me realize. I was always moping about the quality of life hit I took when I started dating someone. Turns out dating is optional and I can just have a high quality of life all the time
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I’ve been dumping low effort people like hot cakes but I can’t find the kind of people who do match my energy.
So I’m just sitting pretty like where the fuck you all at?
So where are you all?
Gd it’s tough out here.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Almost all men are low effort humans
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not even men, my unstable sister, my narcissist ex, my flakey neighbors.
Can’t even have a good conversation.
[–]throw248348FDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
sure is tough :( I think I usually find 8 losers to every guy with potential
reminds me of this meme haha
[–]--wellDAM--FDS Apprentice0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Me_irl
[–]Bnelly2020Throwaway Account6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes, it just keeps you trapped in a bad situation. Better to see yourself out.
[–]AliceKingslyAt-Risk Pick Me Youth0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Eh yes and no. This person has definitely never had to deal with actual harmful situations in real life. I've been bullied all my life and I can tell you for a fact that just because you SEE yourself as the bigger person chances are others will just see you as weak. I've ignored bullies out of cluelessness before and it definitely got worse and more harmful as I let it continue. Of course, if it's just some random online bully then screw them but if it's a person in your life making problems you've GOT to deal with it. Whether it's telling them to fuck off/exposing their ass (in a classy way) or reporting them to a higher authority because trust me when I tell you that they will never leave you alone.
[–]throw248348FDS Newbie[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ooh I'm sorry you've been bullied, lovely <3
I know what you mean about being the bigger person to an abuser or a bully - that may not always work.
maybe I misinterpreted this post! I see this post as not lowering your standards... in the past I have dated guys who have low energy - boring conversations, lack of effort, etc. I've put up with it, lowering my vibration to date them.
but I shouldn't have even returned their energy!!
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